Is Your Relationship Safe and Sustainable?
Take this free 10-question Relationship Clarity Quiz to reflect on patterns involving control, conflict, boundaries, emotional well-being, and divorce-related concerns.
Takes approximately 5 minutes. Your answers are private. This quiz is for reflection and education—it does not diagnose abuse or tell you whether to stay or leave.
You may be wondering, is this normal relationship conflict, or is something more serious happening? Or why do I feel like I am always walking on eggshells?
And then the questions: What should I do if my relationship feels unsafe or high-conflict? Or should I begin preparing for divorce?
You do not have to have all the answers before you begin.
This quiz is a private first step toward understanding the patterns you are experiencing and identifying what kind of support may be helpful.
What You’ll Receive:
After completing the quiz, you’ll receive an invitation to a short, supportive course designed to help you recognize relationship patterns, connect the dots, and better understand your experiences.
The course will provide practical, non-legal education to help you reflect on your circumstances, strengthen your preparation, and make informed decisions about how you may want to move forward.
After completing the course, you’ll also receive a complimentary 30-minute session with me.
This time is an opportunity to discuss your reflections, ask questions, and identify possible next steps based on your individual situation.
You do not have to make every decision at once. This process is designed to help you move forward with greater clarity, preparation, and confidence.
After your complimentary session, you will be eligible to enroll in the next course, “Creating Your Exit Plan and Gathering Information.”
This course is designed to help you organize important information, think through practical considerations, prepare thoughtfully for possible next steps, and create a safe plan to exit the home.
Eligibility and enrollment can be discussed during your complimentary session. Participation in the course does not constitute legal advice, and it does not require you to leave your relationship or make an immediate decision.
How it works
1. Answer 10 questions
Choose the answer that best reflects your experience.
2. Receive your result
Your result will help you understand your relationship better.
4. Decide what comes next
There is no pressure to make a major decision today. You can move forward one step at a time.
Your email will be used to send your quiz results and helpful course-related resources. You may unsubscribe at any time.
Please use a private email account and safe device if you believe someone may monitor your communications.
I created this quiz for people who are questioning their relationship, considering divorce, or dealing with abuse and high-conflict dynamics.
My goal is to provide practical, non-legal education that helps you recognize patterns, so you can strengthen boundaries, understand that you need to prepare thoughtfully, and move forward with greater clarity and hope.
Just to be clear: My information is NOT legal advice;
I am not a lawyer
If someone may monitor your phone, computer, email, or internet activity, complete this quiz only when you are in a private and safe place. Consider using a safe device and a private email account.
If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services or a qualified domestic violence organization in your area.
This quiz and course are educational resources and are not a substitute for emergency, legal, or individualized professional support.